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Grow with the Positive Attitude

Is it half-empty or half-full your glass? You can say your views about life, about your attitude towards yourself, if you are optimistic and cynical about your response to the old question of positive thinking, and it can affect your health.

Indeed some studies suggest that personality traits like optimism and pessimism can influence many health and well-being areas. An significant part of a successful stress management is the constructive thinking typically optimistic. Moreover, successful stress management is related to various health benefits. Do not be desperate if you appear to be cynical — you will learn good thought.

A good attitude is not just sports, it’s more than that, which smiles every time on your face. It is a matter of keeping this positive outlook and attitude even in turmoil. It is also said that positive and negative thoughts do the same for your body as good or bad diet! Feed your mind and you’ll discover remarkable improvements around you.

When you begin to think optimistically, your mind will become clear and you will see the world in a different light. You’re not going to blame yourself or anyone. You control your feelings absolutely and you will try to find a precious lesson at any reversal.

Positive understanding and self-talk

Looking positively doesn’t mean that you stick your head in the sand and disregard less fun circumstances in your life. Positive thinking actually means that you are more positive and constructive about unpleasantness. You feel that the best, not the worst, will happen.

Self-talk also begins with optimistic thought. Self-discussion is a never-ending stream of untalked thoughts from your brain. These automatic thoughts can be good or bad. Any of your self-discussions come from reason and reasoning. Other self-talk can come about because of the lack of information. You create misconceptions.

If your emotions are more negative, your life outlook would be more pessimistic. You definitely are an optimist — someone who practises good ideas, if your thoughts are always positive.

The health benefits of positive thinking

The impact of positive thought and motivation on health continue to be investigated by researchers. Positive thinking health benefits may include:

Entire life improvement
Reduced depression rates
Higher distress rate
Greater tolerance to the prevalent cold
Better physical and psychological health
Better cardiovascular health and decreased cardiovascular disease risk of death
During struggles and periods of stress, stronger coping abilities.

It’s unclear why these health benefits are encountered by individuals who participate in positive thinking. One hypothesis is that maintaining a good attitude helps you to deal with stressful conditions better, which decreases the negative health effects of stress on your body.

Strong and optimistic individuals are often thought to prefer to live healthy lifestyles; they get more physical exercise, adopt a healthier diet, and do not smoke or consume alcohol in excess.

Identifying adverse thinking

Not sure whether you are positive or pessimistic about your self-talk? Some common forms of adverse self-talk include:

Filtering of.

You magnify a situation’s negative aspects and philtre out all of the good ones. You had a nice day at work, for instance. You finished your assignments in advance and were complimented for doing a simple and comprehensive job. You concentrate only on your strategy that evening to do even more tasks and forget about the congratulations you got.


You automatically blame yourself when something negative happens. You learn, for instance, that a friends’ evening out is postponed, and you presume that the change of plans is that no one wanted to be around you.


You expect the worst immediately. The coffee shop drive-through gets your order incorrect and you immediately assume that it would be a nightmare for the rest of the day.

To polarise.

You just see stuff as either good or bad. The middle ground is not there. You feel like you’re going to have to be flawless or you’re a complete failure.
Focusing on thinking positively
You will be able to learn to transform negative thoughts into constructive thinking. The method is easy, but it takes time and practice-after all you’re developing a new habit.

Here are some ways of thinking and behaving in a more optimistic and positive way:

Identify places that should be changed.

First, define aspects of your life that you typically think negatively about whether it’s work, your daily commute or a relationship, if you want to become more motivated and engage in more positive thinking. In a more optimistic way, you can start small by concentrating on one field to approach.
Just check on yourself. Stop and analyse what you’re thinking regularly during the day. Try to find a way to put a positive spin on them if you find that your feelings are mostly negative.

Just be open to humour.

Give yourself permission, especially during difficult times, to smile or laugh. Find humour in daily activities. You feel less depressed when you can laugh at life.

Practice a safe way of life.

Go for about 30 minutes of exercise on most days of the week. During the day, you can also split it up into 10-minute blocks of time. Exercise may have a beneficial effect on mood and stress reduction. To power your mind and body, adopt a balanced diet. And master stress management strategies.

Stay with positive people

Surround yourself with individuals who are optimistic. To offer helpful advice and suggestions, make sure that those in your life are optimistic, compassionate people you can rely on. Negative individuals can increase your level of stress and cause you to question your ability to handle stress in healthy ways.

Practice self-talk positively.

Say nothing about yourself that you’re not going to say to someone else. Be patient with yourself and be positive. If a negative thought enters your mind, analyse it rationally and respond with affirmations of what is good about you. Dream about stuff in your life that you’re grateful for.
Here are some examples of detrimental self-talk and how a constructive thought twist can be applied to them:

Negative self-talk but Positive thought

I’ve never before done it. It is a chance to learn something new.

It is too complex. From a different angle, I will approach it.

I haven’t got the resources. The mother of creativity is needfulness.

To get this done, I’m too lazy. I wasn’t able to fit it into my schedule, but certain goals can be re-examined.

There isn’t any chance it’ll work. I will try to get it to work.

It’s a step too drastic. Let’s take the opportunity.

No one bothered to speak with me. I’ll see if I can open the communication channels.

In this I’m not going to get any better. I’ll give it a try again.

Here are a few more reasons why a healthy attitude should be established in life:


It is understood that a good attitude is connected with the feeling of happiness. A state of mind is happiness; it comes from inside and is not dependent on external influences. You will be in peace and feel satisfied when you think positively. To put it simply, you can be happy right now with a positive attitude… regardless of any situation you are in.

Trust Yourself:

You will start feeling better about yourself when you develop a good attitude. With more respect and affection, you will handle yourself, and this in turn will raise your levels of trust and inner strength. You will take on new challenges and emerge from your convictions that are self-limiting.

Strength in Immune system:

People are vibrant, enthusiastic and balanced with a good attitude. Positive thinking often has a beneficial impact on health; it decreases stress and increases the general well-being. Your body recovers quicker, even though you fall ill.

Focused more:

You achieve mental equilibrium through positive thought, which also allows the brain to carry out functions properly. You learn to remain focused and as a result, in difficult circumstances, you can come up with the right decisions.

To cultivate a healthy mindset by training the mind:

A perfect way to train the mind to think positively is to repeat positive affirmations. On a regular basis, reading inspirational and inspiring quotes will help you conquer negative thoughts and instil in you a sense of hope.
Tackle things with a good outlook when some negative occurrence happens and strive to learn an optimistic lesson from it.

Practicing everyday constructive thought

Don’t plan to become an optimist overnight if you happen to have a gloomy outlook. But with practise, there will gradually be less self-criticism and more self-acceptance in your self-talk. The world around you can therefore become less critical of you.

You’re more able to cope with daily pressures in a more positive way when your state of mind is usually optimistic. The capacity can contribute to the health benefits of positive thinking that are commonly observed.

Know, your emotions and actions are dictated by your ideas. So if a negative thought comes to your mind, replace it with a positive one immediately. Even if you are in a desperate state of affairs, you can comfortably float through the tough process with a positive outlook.
Resolve to be content, no matter what the situation is like. If things do not work in your favour, instead of stressing, work with a positive attitude towards your goals and you will soon see impressive results!


How to be successful in problem solving?

Do you believe that every problem has a solution ? 50% of  the answers to every question is hidden in the question itself, similarly 90% of every problem’s solution is hidden in the problem itself. Our life will become dull without any challenges. A person having no problem creates new problem to make his life interesting. Our brain is always ready face new challenges but we people don’t understand and hates the problem. New problem creates new opportunities, so we should not run away from the problem but we have to boldly face and solve it.

How a Big Problem Arises?

Every person makes a mistake but few people rectify their mistakes. These small mistakes made by us transform itself to a major big problem. These small mistakes should be rectified immediately as numerous small mistakes add up to make a big problem.

How to be calm and peaceful with ease?

Why this Happens?

We people are egoistic minded. We will never accept our mistakes but we love to blame others for our own mistakes. Instead of rectifying our mistakes we start quarrelling with others and make the the matter more complicated. Day by day this complications multiply and becomes a big problem. If you accept the truth and try to solve the problem, then it will vanish like a magic.

The Choice is Yours

Our brain is always restless. It has a tendency to function 24 hours a day. But our Brain’s function is aligned with our five senses. If you keep the five senses busy in doing something important, then it won’t wander here and there or search new problems. But how long? On an average we sleep 8 hours and work 8 hours a day. Remaining 8 hours we release our brain to search new challenges, either to make our life great or to make our life miserable. The choice remains at our own hands.

Now, let’s begin.
There are two kinds of problems in our life

1.Temporary problems

2. Apparently permanent problems

1. How to solve a temporary problem?

What do you want? Do you want the world to control you? or you want to control the whole world? If you have the will to control the world then read the Dale Carnegie’s book “How to win friends and influence people” for better understanding. There you’ll find if you appreciate and acknowledge someone, he will surely favour you. The formula is simple, what you give to the world, you will get back. Instead of doing this, we criticize and condemn others and lose control over the world. This leads to rise of a temporary problem.

Mainly temporary problems are relationship complexities, minor health issues or financial crisis. We avoid to take responsibility. If you think “whatever is happening is due to my good deeds or my mistakes” then 90% of your temporary problem will end. You can’t change others but you can change yourself immediately and now. If you send positive vibrations, through your thoughts and behaviours, to others, then it will return to you in multiple fashions. In today’s world, we all are running to catch the false prestige and show off. We want to treat others as if they are are inferior to us. This egoistic feeling makes everything complicated.

Always remember, “Every problem is due to my own unseen mistakes of past and right now I am taking the responsibility to rectify it.”

Do not considered the matter emotionally or too seriously. Think that ” it is a game and I am making strategies to win this game. I am certain to succeed.”

Strategies of success
How to be successful in life?

A practical way to to solve problems

a) Identify the Game

Take a piece of paper and write

1. I am taking full responsibility to solve the problem.

2. The problem is…….

3. What are the 4 possible ways to solve the problem?

a) ……

b) ……

c) ……

d) ……

4. Can I share the matter to anyone who can help me to solve the puzzle ?

Name of the person / persons …..

5. What books and articles should I refer to dissolve the issue?

Google search result …………..

Name of the books and articles ………

Read those books and articles in detail.

6. Write the deadline when you want to to win this game

Possible date to win the game ……………….

Remember : Don’t write the reason why the problem has arisen as your mindset is solution oriented rather than problem oriented. In other words, focus on the solution not the problem.

b) Creating a Game Plan

Create a game plan according to the priorities. Write the steps you are are going to take one after the other. Don’t do the the task randomly, prioritise it and then start. Every night just before you sleep, create a daily mission list for making the next day a great and fulfilling day.

c) Taking Action According to the Game Plan

Simply planning a project won’t help you. You have to take charge of the game plan you have prepared. Don’t wait for the right moment to come as it will never come. Start taking action right now as tomorrow never comes.

Highly confident man
How to be confident like highly successful people?
c) How to solve Apparently Permanent problems?

Nothing is permanent in this world. We consider a problem as a permanent when we realise that this problem will take time and patience to solve it. Never forget that every problem has a solution. Time is a powerful ointment for our emotional and physical wounds. Some apparently permanent problems vanishes automatically as the time passes away.

We have the habit of naming the apparently permanent problem as Big problem. Our thought process will define our destiny, so never consider any problem as big. You have to think in a different way, that “the life has  challenged me but I am ultimately going to win this challenge. I will make great strategies to succeed over the crisis. I have the ability to solve any challenges of my life.” This mindset is capable of solving any issues of your life.

If the challenges are big, then its outcomes too would be big. This life throws challenges upon us. If it is a big challenge then the life expects more from us to give more to us. You are lucky that the life is forcing you to be more competitive and strong, emotionally as well as physically. So apparently permanent problems are good for us if we initiate ourselves to solve it with full commitment and dedication.

Solve the apparently permanent problems with the help of rules mentioned above – “A practical way to solve problems.” Or “Read Continuous Growth Process” in detail