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How to Manifest Your Dreams to be Successful in Life?

I want my dream life to be real. What? But how?
They all want to turn their dream life into reality. But many of you don’t know how to do that, don’t know how to reach goals, and don’t know how to get started.

Have you heard of the Law of Manifestation before?

Yeah, there is a phrase and it really works. You take it wrong because the true significance of manifestation is not known by most of you. Manifesting something is about making it happen. Manifestation is all about concentrating on and attracting what you want from what you think, say and do. It is all about how, through thinking, you can influence the entire external world.
Yeah, you’ve heard that correctly.
What you think about may be what you become.
Still, perplexed and in doubt?

A Real Life Scenario

Let’s use a real-life scenario to explain this.
I was just like it wasn’t possible at first and then I tried and my life changed. I have made a target card that I have to start doing meaningful work, become more involved, have an awesome network of people, come out of my comfort zone, start writing, and have a few more short-term goals.
The goal card reads, “I am so pleased and thankful that by February 2021 I have accomplished my 5 short-term goals and I am proud of myself. The first thing I used to think about when I woke up and the last thing before I went to bed was this goal statement. I still believed like I had done it. I was living in a world where my aim and short-term goals had already been accomplished. I was already there in my head, because I had a confidence in it. And so I literally built my life, where I am right now with my thoughts.
Isn’t this philosophy magical? Just note, when you learn, you must become what you think of.

It’s a rule, it’s going to give you back whatever vibes you give to the universe. Instead, you don’t need to have a particular set of beliefs; you need to believe in your own abilities.
But the question arises here:- How do you believe in yourself?
How does one turn these dreams into reality?
How do I get what I want?
One also has to take physical action to achieve so. The sooner you take action, the sooner things start to manifest themselves. And this won’t happen until you take action. If you just sit around and think about dreams, manifestation can not happen.
The choice is still yours for a better life. Always note that in your life, you can have whatever you want, because whatever you want is waiting for you already.
So here are 5 simple steps you can take to turn your dream life into reality:—

Trust in yourself

Start to believe in yourself in your talents and abilities. These are the two powerful words for Manifest, I AM. You still believe that I am, that I will, and that I will. Trust the system and keep doing it.

Build A Strategy and Act

Action. That’s what is most important. You can’t just imagine the burger and eat it. You can feel better with visualisation. It works and can only happen if you work hard to accomplish it.

Then, if not now, when??
Then take action if you’ve made a strategy.

Write down the short-term/long-term priorities.

Tell yourself and others about what you’re trying to do.
To get a little closer to your target, do something every day.
Take suggestions and collaborate on it.
A must is introspection.
Keep reminding yourself of your desired performance.

Emphasis on the Positive Side

Have you ever heard of the Attraction Act?
This is the capacity to draw everything we are focused on into our lives. What you send, you attract. It’s the idea that positive thoughts in the life of a person carry positive experiences. So don’t let your fear, your concern, your anxiety, limit your positive faith.

Has it ever happened that you were thinking of your friend and that person called you that same day???
This is how the law of attraction is perceived by people and taken as a coincidence.

Visualise Success

If you like, imagine. It stimulates the brain to get educated. Focus on what you want, regardless of the fact that it might not be your current truth, to increase motivation and to increase trust.
It’s the big secret of success.

Being Humble and Grateful

Staying humble helps to achieve better results at work. Always be happy for what you’re having.
Always be grateful to the world and to the people who have helped you accomplish all your dreams, for all the hard work you have done. Be thankful for the benefits you have and for what you will get in the future.

Sit back, calm down and relax your mind and have a long and deep conversation to brainstorm and introspect with yourself that you believe and keep updating them with time.

Ask for what you want and get ready for hard work and get it.

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How to be successful in problem solving?

Do you believe that every problem has a solution ? 50% of  the answers to every question is hidden in the question itself, similarly 90% of every problem’s solution is hidden in the problem itself. Our life will become dull without any challenges. A person having no problem creates new problem to make his life interesting. Our brain is always ready face new challenges but we people don’t understand and hates the problem. New problem creates new opportunities, so we should not run away from the problem but we have to boldly face and solve it.

How a Big Problem Arises?

Every person makes a mistake but few people rectify their mistakes. These small mistakes made by us transform itself to a major big problem. These small mistakes should be rectified immediately as numerous small mistakes add up to make a big problem.

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Why this Happens?

We people are egoistic minded. We will never accept our mistakes but we love to blame others for our own mistakes. Instead of rectifying our mistakes we start quarrelling with others and make the the matter more complicated. Day by day this complications multiply and becomes a big problem. If you accept the truth and try to solve the problem, then it will vanish like a magic.

The Choice is Yours

Our brain is always restless. It has a tendency to function 24 hours a day. But our Brain’s function is aligned with our five senses. If you keep the five senses busy in doing something important, then it won’t wander here and there or search new problems. But how long? On an average we sleep 8 hours and work 8 hours a day. Remaining 8 hours we release our brain to search new challenges, either to make our life great or to make our life miserable. The choice remains at our own hands.

Now, let’s begin.
There are two kinds of problems in our life

1.Temporary problems

2. Apparently permanent problems

1. How to solve a temporary problem?

What do you want? Do you want the world to control you? or you want to control the whole world? If you have the will to control the world then read the Dale Carnegie’s book “How to win friends and influence people” for better understanding. There you’ll find if you appreciate and acknowledge someone, he will surely favour you. The formula is simple, what you give to the world, you will get back. Instead of doing this, we criticize and condemn others and lose control over the world. This leads to rise of a temporary problem.

Mainly temporary problems are relationship complexities, minor health issues or financial crisis. We avoid to take responsibility. If you think “whatever is happening is due to my good deeds or my mistakes” then 90% of your temporary problem will end. You can’t change others but you can change yourself immediately and now. If you send positive vibrations, through your thoughts and behaviours, to others, then it will return to you in multiple fashions. In today’s world, we all are running to catch the false prestige and show off. We want to treat others as if they are are inferior to us. This egoistic feeling makes everything complicated.

Always remember, “Every problem is due to my own unseen mistakes of past and right now I am taking the responsibility to rectify it.”

Do not considered the matter emotionally or too seriously. Think that ” it is a game and I am making strategies to win this game. I am certain to succeed.”

Strategies of success
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A practical way to to solve problems

a) Identify the Game

Take a piece of paper and write

1. I am taking full responsibility to solve the problem.

2. The problem is…….

3. What are the 4 possible ways to solve the problem?

a) ……

b) ……

c) ……

d) ……

4. Can I share the matter to anyone who can help me to solve the puzzle ?

Name of the person / persons …..

5. What books and articles should I refer to dissolve the issue?

Google search result …………..

Name of the books and articles ………

Read those books and articles in detail.

6. Write the deadline when you want to to win this game

Possible date to win the game ……………….

Remember : Don’t write the reason why the problem has arisen as your mindset is solution oriented rather than problem oriented. In other words, focus on the solution not the problem.

b) Creating a Game Plan

Create a game plan according to the priorities. Write the steps you are are going to take one after the other. Don’t do the the task randomly, prioritise it and then start. Every night just before you sleep, create a daily mission list for making the next day a great and fulfilling day.

c) Taking Action According to the Game Plan

Simply planning a project won’t help you. You have to take charge of the game plan you have prepared. Don’t wait for the right moment to come as it will never come. Start taking action right now as tomorrow never comes.

Highly confident man
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c) How to solve Apparently Permanent problems?

Nothing is permanent in this world. We consider a problem as a permanent when we realise that this problem will take time and patience to solve it. Never forget that every problem has a solution. Time is a powerful ointment for our emotional and physical wounds. Some apparently permanent problems vanishes automatically as the time passes away.

We have the habit of naming the apparently permanent problem as Big problem. Our thought process will define our destiny, so never consider any problem as big. You have to think in a different way, that “the life has  challenged me but I am ultimately going to win this challenge. I will make great strategies to succeed over the crisis. I have the ability to solve any challenges of my life.” This mindset is capable of solving any issues of your life.

If the challenges are big, then its outcomes too would be big. This life throws challenges upon us. If it is a big challenge then the life expects more from us to give more to us. You are lucky that the life is forcing you to be more competitive and strong, emotionally as well as physically. So apparently permanent problems are good for us if we initiate ourselves to solve it with full commitment and dedication.

Solve the apparently permanent problems with the help of rules mentioned above – “A practical way to solve problems.” Or “Read Continuous Growth Process” in detail