Category Archives: Mental Attitude

How to Overcome Stress and Anxiety easily?

Whether it’s thunderstorms, a trip to the dentist, a stranger at your door, or losing someone close to you, you know what it is like to be frightened of something. Fear is a natural response that cautions our bodies to be vigilant. Anxiety is a form of anxiety, rather than worrying something that is real, coping more with concern and the future.

They become an issue when fear and anxiety become a trend in our lives. If a problem is with your blocked drain in the kitchen sink, do you neglect it? Not of course. Call a plumber or try to repair it on your own. When your physical and mental health is weakened by fearfulness, and you find yourself avoiding activities that could

Build more fear, don’t dismiss it. Don’t try to force it away when fear becomes a painful thing that leaves you cowering and sick.

Learn how to conquer anxiety and depression

Depressed child

Phase 1: Understand about your Anxiety

This first move may be the most difficult one, but it’s absolutely important, too. A insecurity that lies concealed in the dusty regions of your subconscious can not be resolved. You’ve got ta face it. You see the individual when you turn your face toward a person and learn what he looks like and how he behaves. You discover things about your fear that you didn’t know before, as you turn toward your fear (rather than away from it). This understanding helps you resolve it.

Try keeping a journal over a period of two or three weeks to help yourself face your fears and anxiety. Record any trends that you find. When you hear the doorbell, do your hands turn clammy and your stomach clench? In the morning or evening, do you show more signs of anxiety?

Phase 2: In Constructive Ways use your Imagination

Fantasy is a beautiful thing. Unfortunately, an active imagination can be a harmful tool when it causes you to think about negative things. It gives you power, creativity, and the ability to think outside the box.

Your imagination will magnify your fears, making things look even worse for your situation than it really is.

Imaginative fear

Do this exercise five times a day and in no time, you can begin to think and perform better:

Step 1.

Take a deep inhale

Step 2.

Exhale (as if blowing out a candle) with a brief blast. This helps trigger the diaphragm, which is not used by most individuals.

Step 3.

To empty the lungs, exhale with a long , slow finish. Breathlessness results from not enough CO2 being expelled.

Step 4.

Inhale instead of taking small sips, filling the lungs from the bottom to the top. A third of their lung capacity is used by most.

Step 5.

Keep to allow oxygen to saturate the cells for a moment.

Step 6.

Slowly and thoroughly exhale.

Step 7.

For 5 minutes, repeat steps 4 to 6.

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To-your mental stress and anxiety, there are other necessary steps that you may take.

No 1. Face your anxiety if you can

You will stop doing things you want or need to do if you always avoid situations that scare you. If the situation is always as bad as you expect, you will not be able to test it, so you miss the chance to work out how to manage your fears and reduce your anxiety. Problems with anxiety tend to escalate once you get into this pattern. It can be an important way of resolving this anxiety to open yourself to your fears.

No 2. Know about yourself

Try to learn more about your anxiety or fear. Keep a log of anxiety or a record of thinking to remember when it occurs and what happens.

You can try to set small , achievable goals for yourself to face your fears. You can carry a list of things with you that help at times when you are likely to be scared or anxious. This can be an efficient way to deal with the fundamental principles behind your anxiety.

Try to learn more about your anxiety or terror. Keep a record of what happens and when it occurs.

No 3. Physical warm up

Raise the amount of exercise you’re doing. Some attention is needed for exercise, and this may take your mind off your fear and anxiety.

No 4. Relax

The mental and physical feelings of fear will assist you with learning calming strategies. Simply lowering your shoulders and breathing deeply will help. Or, in a comfortable place, imagine yourself. You may also try to learn items such as yoga , meditation, massage, or listen to the wellness podcast of the Mental Health Foundation.

No 5. Balanced meals

Eat plenty of fruits and vegetables, and strive to avoid excessive sugar. You can get nervous feelings from the subsequent dips in your blood sugar. Try to stop consuming too much tea and coffee, as anxiety levels can be exacerbated by caffeine.

No 6. Stop alcohol or, in moderation, drink

No 6. Stop alcohol or, in moderation, drink

When they feel anxious, it’s very normal for people to drink. Alcohol is called ‘Dutch courage’ by some people, but the after-effects of alcohol will make you feel much more frightened or nervous.

No 7. Treatments

Some individuals find that they are helped to cope with their anxiety through alternative treatments or activities, such as calming methods, meditation, yoga.

No 8. Spirituality / faith

This will give you a way of feeling linked to something greater than yourself, whether you are religious or spiritual. Faith can offer a way to cope with daily stress, and you can be linked with a powerful support network by joining church and other faith groups.

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How to be successful in problem solving?

Do you believe that every problem has a solution ? 50% of  the answers to every question is hidden in the question itself, similarly 90% of every problem’s solution is hidden in the problem itself. Our life will become dull without any challenges. A person having no problem creates new problem to make his life interesting. Our brain is always ready face new challenges but we people don’t understand and hates the problem. New problem creates new opportunities, so we should not run away from the problem but we have to boldly face and solve it.

How a Big Problem Arises?

Every person makes a mistake but few people rectify their mistakes. These small mistakes made by us transform itself to a major big problem. These small mistakes should be rectified immediately as numerous small mistakes add up to make a big problem.

How to be calm and peaceful with ease?

Why this Happens?

We people are egoistic minded. We will never accept our mistakes but we love to blame others for our own mistakes. Instead of rectifying our mistakes we start quarrelling with others and make the the matter more complicated. Day by day this complications multiply and becomes a big problem. If you accept the truth and try to solve the problem, then it will vanish like a magic.

The Choice is Yours

Our brain is always restless. It has a tendency to function 24 hours a day. But our Brain’s function is aligned with our five senses. If you keep the five senses busy in doing something important, then it won’t wander here and there or search new problems. But how long? On an average we sleep 8 hours and work 8 hours a day. Remaining 8 hours we release our brain to search new challenges, either to make our life great or to make our life miserable. The choice remains at our own hands.

Now, let’s begin.
There are two kinds of problems in our life

1.Temporary problems

2. Apparently permanent problems

1. How to solve a temporary problem?

What do you want? Do you want the world to control you? or you want to control the whole world? If you have the will to control the world then read the Dale Carnegie’s book “How to win friends and influence people” for better understanding. There you’ll find if you appreciate and acknowledge someone, he will surely favour you. The formula is simple, what you give to the world, you will get back. Instead of doing this, we criticize and condemn others and lose control over the world. This leads to rise of a temporary problem.

Mainly temporary problems are relationship complexities, minor health issues or financial crisis. We avoid to take responsibility. If you think “whatever is happening is due to my good deeds or my mistakes” then 90% of your temporary problem will end. You can’t change others but you can change yourself immediately and now. If you send positive vibrations, through your thoughts and behaviours, to others, then it will return to you in multiple fashions. In today’s world, we all are running to catch the false prestige and show off. We want to treat others as if they are are inferior to us. This egoistic feeling makes everything complicated.

Always remember, “Every problem is due to my own unseen mistakes of past and right now I am taking the responsibility to rectify it.”

Do not considered the matter emotionally or too seriously. Think that ” it is a game and I am making strategies to win this game. I am certain to succeed.”

Strategies of success
How to be successful in life?

A practical way to to solve problems

a) Identify the Game

Take a piece of paper and write

1. I am taking full responsibility to solve the problem.

2. The problem is…….

3. What are the 4 possible ways to solve the problem?

a) ……

b) ……

c) ……

d) ……

4. Can I share the matter to anyone who can help me to solve the puzzle ?

Name of the person / persons …..

5. What books and articles should I refer to dissolve the issue?

Google search result …………..

Name of the books and articles ………

Read those books and articles in detail.

6. Write the deadline when you want to to win this game

Possible date to win the game ……………….

Remember : Don’t write the reason why the problem has arisen as your mindset is solution oriented rather than problem oriented. In other words, focus on the solution not the problem.

b) Creating a Game Plan

Create a game plan according to the priorities. Write the steps you are are going to take one after the other. Don’t do the the task randomly, prioritise it and then start. Every night just before you sleep, create a daily mission list for making the next day a great and fulfilling day.

c) Taking Action According to the Game Plan

Simply planning a project won’t help you. You have to take charge of the game plan you have prepared. Don’t wait for the right moment to come as it will never come. Start taking action right now as tomorrow never comes.

Highly confident man
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c) How to solve Apparently Permanent problems?

Nothing is permanent in this world. We consider a problem as a permanent when we realise that this problem will take time and patience to solve it. Never forget that every problem has a solution. Time is a powerful ointment for our emotional and physical wounds. Some apparently permanent problems vanishes automatically as the time passes away.

We have the habit of naming the apparently permanent problem as Big problem. Our thought process will define our destiny, so never consider any problem as big. You have to think in a different way, that “the life has  challenged me but I am ultimately going to win this challenge. I will make great strategies to succeed over the crisis. I have the ability to solve any challenges of my life.” This mindset is capable of solving any issues of your life.

If the challenges are big, then its outcomes too would be big. This life throws challenges upon us. If it is a big challenge then the life expects more from us to give more to us. You are lucky that the life is forcing you to be more competitive and strong, emotionally as well as physically. So apparently permanent problems are good for us if we initiate ourselves to solve it with full commitment and dedication.

Solve the apparently permanent problems with the help of rules mentioned above – “A practical way to solve problems.” Or “Read Continuous Growth Process” in detail